Posts Written ByDavid Todd McCarty

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There is an episode in Chapter Six of “The House At Pooh Corner” where the woodland creatures invent a game known as Poohsticks. The rules are simple and straightforward. Participants drop sticks on one side of the little bridge over the stream and then hurry to the other side to see which stick arrives first. It’s a game of chance, although some have argued there is an element of skill involved. Eeyore proved particularly adept at it.

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Human beings lie. We lie all the time. We lie to each other. We lie to ourselves. It is part of what makes us human. We are not entirely alone within the broader animal kingdom, as there are plenty of other species who use various forms of deception, pretending to be something they’re not. It’s just that they usually do so as a defensive mechanism against would-be predators. Most creatures, do not try to deceive other members of the same species, let alone themselves. We seem to have a lock on that little peccadillo. Well done, us.

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I’m going to be 59 years old in a few months. I find this to be unfathomable. That’s just shy of sixty, which is absolutely ludicrous and not at all believable, or even remotely humorous. That’s old people territory. This is when you join a cohort of shuffling geriatrics who get cheap movie theater tickets, free rides on the bus, and pudding for dessert. Old as fuck, as the kids like to say.

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I get bored with reality and I miss having a reliable mind-altering experience to look forward to at the end of the day. There’s only so many times you can dip into the coffee pot for your daily dose of a little thrill and there’s nothing waiting for you at the end. No little treat. How do you know when your workday is done if you don’t change your mindset with a little altered reality? That’s the real habit that’s difficult to break. This is why recovering addicts turn to sweets and nicotine. The lesser of evils, or so they imagine.